Last week I was out at the Toronto Rebel club with some poly friends I met at a meet up.
It started like normal night out: dancing, some drinks, telling jokes. Then Chris, one of my new friends, asked if any of us had ever heard of a BDSM dungeon before.
I replied no, and so did my other two friends Sarah and Amanda. Chris soon explained that Toronto has some pretty famous dungeons filled with erotic furniture and sex equipment. He went on to explain that the dungeons are available to rent by the hour, and that split between 4 people it is quite affordable.
I was surprised, I had heard of BDSM before of course, as I am an avid 50 shades of grey fan. But had never considered renting a dungeon before.
Exploring the Sex Dungeon First Hand
As the night continued we began to get more and more inebriated. Eventually we all came to the consensus that we should rent out one of these dungeons for an hour, you know, just to check it out.
We called around and eventually found a place called the ritual chamber that charged $300 an hour. A 15 minute driver later and we were outside the front door of a beautiful Victorian mansion in a rich looking neighborhood. Quite the ambiance for a kinky parlor.
The host let us in and began to explain all the rules. She didn’t seem to mind that we were all a little drunk, perhaps it was a normal occurrence that curious revelers show up this late at night.
There were 6 rooms total, each with a different fantasy theme: a medical clinic, complete with medical exam tools, gowns, and insertion devices; a school room, with paddles and whips for naughty students; the classic dungeon, with all kinds of kinky furniture i’d never imagined; a nursery, which was just too weird for me; and also a Victorian parlour that matched the elegant style of the house.
After our tour we were left to enjoy our hour.
We spent time wandering the rooms and giggling as we imagined how all the rooms might be used.
The Sex Stool Room
I left the others to explore the parlour as I went off to the modern dungeon. There was all kinds of erotic toys in there! Most of them looked quite painful, but one really stood out: a sex stool with bouncy straps.
At first I couldn’t really figure it out. Then i start experimenting with it by sitting down and bouncing on it some more. It was really fun!
Honestly stuff, like the sex stool or the liberator is my ideal sex toy. It is just a fun new approach to sex rather than a painful one, and there are also loving communities around it like sex stool muse. I was thankful for the diversity that this sex dungeon had, it wasn’t all about pain and dominance (although there was plenty of that in there too).
The Rest of the Night
If you are expecting some kinky story about how we all had a foursome in the dungeon, i’m sorry, but I have to disappoint you. We were all new friends and this was just a fun nightly adventure of curiosity. Call me a nerd if you like, but i prefer to wait until at least the second or third date before using a sex dungeon.